Friday, March 27, 2009

What's Going On?

Since people have been asking, and since I know how busy my mom is, I thought some of you might like an update on what's been going on with Dad in the last few weeks.

Dad was supposed to be back in Seattle by now, according to what they told him when he left anyways. They told him that he would have two or three rounds of chemo, and then he'd travel back to Seattle for the donor transplant, but by the time he was done the three rounds they'd changed their plans.

As things stand right now, they'd like to do three more rounds of chemo and then another Autologous Stem Cell Infusion (or Autotransplant) in May, before he goes back to Seattle sometime around August. The autotransplant would be like the one he had last January where they gave him a stem cell transplant using his own stem cells. Of course, he is not especially enthusiastic about this, (an understatement I'm sure) since the last one was very hard on his body if you remember. And things like this always contain some element of risk.

The thing is, because he has high risk Multiple Myeloma, and because his last remission didn't last as long as the doctors (and we) would have liked, they feel that another autotransplant would give the donor transplant the best chance of success. Hopefully the autotransplant would give Dad a long enough remission for the donor stem cells to take hold and then keep the cancer in remission. (You may be wondering why they didn't just give him the donor transplant right after his last autotransplant? Why did they leave him waiting around for almost a whole year till they finally sent him out to Seattle? One reason was because they weren't expecting his cancer to come back so quickly, and the other reasons... Oh, let's not talk about those. I'll just get angry.)

So that's where things stand right now. As far as I know, Dad still hasn't decided for sure on another autotransplant, but he's already started on these latest rounds of chemo. Each round takes three weeks, so he'll be around here for a while yet. (Which, I have to confess, makes this selfish girl pretty happy. I really want Mom and Dad to meet my new baby before they have to leave again.)

Please pray that the right decisions are made and that when it finally is time to go back to Seattle my mom will have her new Canadian passport.
Here's a picture of Dad just for fun. It's Ben and Sam's favorite. Right at this moment Sammy is screaming "Ahhhhhhhh! Lookadat! Dat's Grampa! Grampa's on the horse! Ahhhhhhhhh! Dat's funny! Grampa's funny! He's riding dat horse!" (And so on...)

8 comments:

Becky said...

(Oh, and Mom and Dad, feel free to change anything I put in there that's wrong. I'm pretty dumb right now and have trouble keeping things straight in my head.)

Martha said...

thanks for the update - we'll keep on praying here for everything....we can feel along with the ups and downs - the decisions to be made - the frustrations with dr's....yeah...but hey at least they are going to be there when Hannah is born - so glad for that part! One of the silver linings;)

Martha said...

oh ya, love the picture! ride em' cowboy!

The Invisible Mo said...

Nice picture! haha. I can see why the boys love it so much!
While I am sorry I have to wait so long to see them again, I am glad they get to be there when you have the baby. I think it would have been very hard on both of them to miss that, especially your mom.
Here's hoping and praying for the best decisions and the best possible outcome.

Margaret said...

thanks so much for the update, Becky. We will continue to pray.
John, you are the coolest Grandpa ever.

Christine said...

Where was I when this picture was taken? Hahahaha!

You got it right. He does have the choice to go to Seattle right after the chemo is finished and be maintained on maintenance drugs until the transplant. That is not what Seattle recommends though.

Sue said...

Thanks for the update, Becky.

Love that picture of your Dad, It's amazing what Grandparents will do to please and amuse their grandkid's. Uncle Marv was making snow angels for Chloe today in his swimming trunks!!! Crazy old man....Pictures will be posted on facebook shortly.

Love you lots! Waiting and praying for the safe deliver of your little Hannah

footsack said...

Thanks so much for that update! We too hope and pray that all things will work out the way they should!!
Love the picture :)